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Why is the family so important to Muslims? |
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The family is the foundation of Islamic society. The peace and security offered by a stable family unit is greatly valued, and seen as essential for the spiritual growth of its members. A harmonious social order is created by the existence of extended families; children are treasured, and rarely leave home until the time they marry.
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What about Muslim women? |
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Islam sees a woman, whether
single or married, as an individual in her own right, with
the right to own and dispose of her property and earnings.
The groom gives a marriage dowry to the bride for her own
personal use, and she keeps her own family name rather than
taking her husbands.
Both men and women are expected to dress in a way that is
modest and dignified; the traditions of female dress found
in some Muslim countries are often the expression of local
customs. |
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The Messenger of God said:
"The most perfect in faith amongst believers is he who is best
in manner and kindest to his wife."
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Can a Muslim have more than one wife? |
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The religion of Islam was revealed for all societies and all times and so accommodates widely differing social requirement. Circumstances may warrant the taking of another wife but the right is granted, according to the Qur’an, only on condition that the husband is scrupulously fair. |
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Is Islamic marriage like Christian marriage?
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A Muslim marriage is not
a ‘sacrament’, but simple,
legal agreement in which either partner is free to include
conditions. Marriage customs thus vary widely from country
to country. As a result, divorce is not common, although it
is not forbidden as a last resort. According to Islam, no Muslim
girl can be forced to marry against her will: her parents will
simply suggest young men they think may be suitable. |
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How do Muslims treat the elderly? |
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In the Islamic world there
are no old people’s homes.
The strain of caring for one’s parents in this most difficult
time of their lives is considered an honor and blessing, and
an opportunity for great spiritual growth. God asks that we
not only pray for our parents, but act with limitless compassion,
remembering that when we were helpless children they preferred
us to themselves.
Mothers are particularly honored: the Prophet taught that ‘Paradise
lies at the feet of mothers’. When they reach old age,
Muslim parents are treated mercifully, with the same kindness
and selflessness.
In Islam, serving one’s parents is a duty second only
to prayer, and it is their right to expect it. It is considered
despicable to express any irritation when, through no fault
of their own, the old become difficult. |
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The Qur’an says:
Your lord has commanded that you worship none but him, and
be kind to parents if either or both of them reach old age
with you, do not say ‘uff’ to them or chide them,
but speak to them in terms of honor and kindness. Treat them
with humility, and say, ‘my lord! Have mercy on them,
for they did care for me when I was little’. [17:23-4] |
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